Ladies – keep your boots on for this! There has been a fight for dominance with money, power, and sex between partners — and it all takes place in the bedroom.
Several generations ago, men and women mostly had sex strictly for procreation and to carry on the family legacy and name. Sex was viewed as a duty and obligation in the not-so-distant past. People lived to survive, farming the land to have their physical needs met. In traditional roles, the men were the hunters and brought home the bacon. Men went to work and the women would support the man in the home environment, gathering and preparing meals, and tending the children.
There is an interesting dynamic with partnerships that has been developing in today’s time. A subconscious pattern, a pattern that we are not really aware of, emerges within the relationship, and the battle for dominance and the fight for power begins.
Our world is vastly different in this new era and having sex now feeds our need for pleasure, physical touch, and our emotional wellbeing. With this paradigm shift, the roles of gender have been changing. Although it still takes two to support a family, both partners are in the workforce rather than the traditional role of one person, which adds the element of money into the sexual relationship.
Old traditional roles have been disappearing and women are becoming the main wage earners being in the top of their careers. With this role reversal of wage earners, a new paradigm is taking place. Women have become hunters of men, and men are left wondering what to do, confused since they became the hunted. The expectation, however, is that men are still required to bring home the bacon – which is hard to do if they didn’t hunt. Ladies, if you find yourself hunting a man, even after a capture, you will always be wondering where the bacon is.
Women can be the main “breadwinner” and bring home the bacon, but be prepared ladies, if you are the one making the gold, you are in control of the bedroom.
Before we go any further, it is important to understand that when men or women, male or female, masculine or feminine are mentioned, gender is not being referred to, but the hemisphere of the brain that is dominate. Those words are used to make the distinction between the functioning roles in partnerships. This applies in heterosexual, same-sex, and other types of gendered relationships. In balanced partnerships, regardless of gender, one partner tends to have a predominate masculine brain – “left-brained” -while the other partner has a predominate feminine brain – “right-brained”. Not every male gender has a masculine brain and not every female gender has a feminine brain.
If both partners are in the feminine brain too long, the relationship will lack drive and will have lots of chaos and drama. The relationship will lose its flexibility, lack direction moving forward, and a standstill happens. If both partners are in the masculine brain together too long, there is a lack of nurturing, emotional and physical needs are not being met, and there is constant rigidness, friction, and stubbornness in the relationship. In a healthy relationship, both partners can flow between masculine and feminine energy, regardless of which hemisphere is dominant.
Sex, Power, and Money
Men and women view money and sex very differently. Some of these views come from the cultures that we live in, the genetics that we are born with, and the social conditioning of our environments. How money is created, used, and experienced depends greatly on the hemisphere of the dominant side of the brain.
Ladies, here is how a masculine brain works. The social currency for a man of the house is professional and financial success. Regardless of the context of the masculine-dominated brain, men will sometimes trade money for sex. Yes, ladies, this does happen, even in dating scenarios. Some men believe that if they spend money on you, the favor of sex will be returned. In committed relationships, the masculine person will provide money, security, and protection to receive back that emotional support and a place to come home to. Money in the male brain represents autonomy, freedom, power, and control.
From the feminine perspective, women tend to view money as safety and security. The social currency of a woman and femininity is youth, beauty, charm, and sexuality. Where men would trade money for sex, women will trade sex for financial and emotional security. In a committed relationship, the feminine person will provide for a baby and children to receive a warm nurturing place to thrive, an inviting home, and emotional nurturing. The feminine brain with money is emotional over logic, tending to shop and spend.
Both men and women are looking for love. The “I love you” from the masculine is wanting good sex, and the “I love you” of the feminine is financial security. The basic need for love drives an instinctual behavior to bond together, even if the motivations are different. One basic premise still survives: whoever is in the driver’s seat of earning the money … rules the bedroom.
The Sexual Energy of Money Flow
There is a correlation between sexual flow and financial energy flow. The sexual energy will build up inside and keep building until it is released and channeled somewhere. Dear ladies, as a man once asked me “more sex in my partnership means more abundance and money?” (Apologies here, but this is how a man sometimes thinks full of testosterone.) The answer is YES! The same also goes for the women, hence the battle of control in the bedroom and the money supply.
The inner sexual energy is an incredibly strong force of creation and influences the rest of the human psyche and energy. When we feel good, we attract goodness – including money and prosperity. The energy of prosperity comes from within and can be greatly influenced by how sexual energy is handled and determines the level of magnetism and charisma a person has.
Charisma is the magnetic personal quality and is a powerful attraction when the sexual energy is balanced between two partners. Confidence, optimism, enthusiasm, and both verbal and nonverbal communication are all enhanced. This powerful attracter can lead to business opportunities that are bound to appear. When the sexual energy is channeled through, personal attractiveness increases and returns to abundance. Ladies, controlling the bedroom here may not all be a bad thing.
Releasing Blocked Energy
Money and sex are centered in the same energy center, the sacral, or your seat of creation. When the sexual energy is blocked and no longer flowing, the abundance and prosperity in life can also stop flowing. This happens in life often when our bodies go through life’s natural changes, and we move into the retirement years, and by default, we stop earning money.
Trauma and abuse that has been experienced previously in life will also stop that energetic flow and money may come to a standstill. Abuse can be registered as anything that is demeaning to a person’s sense of worth. Many times, abuse is related to sex. When this happens, the emotional blocks also stop the free flow of money and everything else in life.
Other considerations are how you feel about sex, what you were taught about sex, and your experiences with sex will also influence the money supply. There is a lot of fear around having sex and earning a lot of money. Many cultures were taught that sex is shameful. Others believe that they are not deserving of having money, the abundance that they seek, the mate they desire to have, or that they can have only one, but not both a mate and money. These and many more beliefs come from an imbalance in the energy centers.
Ladies, you can truly have it all and all at the same time! You then come into perfect alignment, knowing that abundance is your genetic and divine right, the battle between the sexes for money, power, control, and sex is simply gone. The fight for dominance is over and a true balance of equals emerges, and yes, you can still rule the bedroom.
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