Unlock More Abundance: How To Live In A Friendly Universe
“The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile universe.”
This decision point that Einstein supposedly suggested we each make, consciously or unconsciously, determines how we perceive the world and whether our state of being is positive and used as a force for good. It will determine how you feel supported or guided, or not, and whether you accept the possibility of alternative realms in the form of God, universal energy, life force, the quantum field, or whatever name serves you. I call it God, the intelligent, friendly universe that runs the show.
From a broadly simplified metaphysical interpretation, quantum physics describes an invisible energetic field of all possibilities beyond space-time as we know it. It contains everything and nothing all at once. Here, particles made of matter dance about the universe as energy waves.
Each particle is a unique possibility that, once you observe, becomes your reality. Seeing one of these particles within the waves causes it to collapse, from the infinite to the specific, to become what you now experience, known as the “Observer Effect.”
So, your conscious awareness of something is the energetic picture you hold in your mind, your view of a friendly or hostile world, how you think and feel. The good news is that you can affect your worldview by your choice to be happy. See the old reality that is not working and choose to see a new one. The level of your conscious awareness is the reality that informs your thoughts, beliefs, and how and where you put your faith.
We often ask the universe for help and guidance, then do not take it because it is not what we want to do or hear, forgetting the friendliness of the universe and its infinite possibilities. If you wish for great financial abundance, there is a reality where this exists. If you want to be healed, there is a reality where this exists. If you desire a loving relationship, there is a reality where this exists, too. If you are asking for direction, the invitation is to be open to seeing the suggestions coming back to you and consider observing a new reality. How? By taking steps toward the reality you want to happen. Collapse the waves that create your bestseller, go on your dream safari in Botswana, or clear that $75,000 debt you have been carrying.
As you are looking for guidance from the universe and collapsing waves, a notion to keep in mind from several spiritual thought leaders: the answers you seek from your higher power may not always be the ones you want, although they will always be the ones you need. Those directives may come in ways you never expected over a period not imagined.
Faith helps you realize “what is” in a situation and allows the universe to guide you in the right direction, even though there may be some painful bumps along your path.
Cultivate Awareness of Your Inner Dialogue
Your thoughts shape your world. When scarcity or fear arises, reframe it. Ask, “What abundance is here, and how can I access it?” Shift your mindset. Open yourself to new opportunities.
Make Space for New Possibilities
Declutter your life—physically and emotionally. Let go of what no longer serves you. Let go of regret, an old emotion, and items you have been hanging onto. Clearing space allows new things to flow in.
Trust in Serendipity
Life often brings unexpected moments—chance meetings, meaningful books, or messages from nature. Trust that there are signs from the universe guiding you toward what is meant for you. If only you will listen.
Take Inspired Action
Faith requires action. Listen to your instincts and step out of your comfort zone. Each small, inspired step moves you closer to your desires.
Embrace Gratitude for the Unseen
Make it your daily practice to thank all the good—seen and unseen. Gratitude is circular. What you give out comes back. Make sure it is positive and what you want.
Let Go of the Need to Control the Outcome
Release the urge to control everything. Trust the universe’s timing. There is your timing and the universe’s timing. Focus on the journey, not just the end result.
Practice Radical Acceptance
Challenges are part of growing as a human. You know this. The hard ones build emotional resilience. So, see these moments for what they truly are and trust in the process of life.
Acknowledge Your Role as a Co-Creator…With the Universe
You are actively creating your life. Be mindful of how your actions, thoughts, and energy shape your reality. Take responsibility for what you create each day.
What universe do you choose to live in? I know my choice.
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“We often ask the universe for help and guidance, then do not take it because it is not what we want to do or hear, forgetting the friendliness of the universe and its infinite possibilities.” – Maria Baltazzi
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