Your Body’s Pattern Holds a Key to Your Success—Over the last 25 years, I have worked with thousands of women all over the world—from South Africa to London to New York—guiding them to align with the truth of who they are and build body-led businesses.
Through the years, I have noticed distinctive patterns that show up with the help of money as their teacher. These women have endured trauma that they are committed to transforming. They have forged a path where they will not tolerate anything less than prosperity, liberation, and a sense of deep fulfillment on a soul level.
Here are four of the most common recurring patterns:
Pattern 1 The Mystic You tend to live in the upper chakras.
You are a big-picture thinker. You love to commune with the cosmos and are more comfortable in the ethers of spirituality and the invisible world. You are idealistic, believe in magic, are a champion for others’ ideas, and want to see others win. You crave freedom and don’t want anything holding you down, and while you appreciate the finer things in life, you know that you need to make some earthly changes because your habits, behavior, and sense of belonging are threatened in our modern world. You rarely notice what’s happening in your body because you aren’t in it very often. Detached and disconnected has served you well and kept you safe. You use money as a way to enjoy life.
You deserve to have what you desire! You want to be free to indulge yourself and the people you love, so nothing is off-limits. Under all of the spending, there may be a subconscious desire to fill up because you feel empty or lack love or value. You likely have experienced a trauma that was so painful you found safety in being ‘out of body,’ and you are comfortable here as long as there is no pressure from the outside world to do anything that takes you out of your safety zone. You are not ruled by money and yet you have so many creative ideas that can be used to create wealth and make a positive difference in the world. You are likely a natural healer and an old soul.
Pattern 2 The SuperProducer
You are the epitome of a leader and visionary. You are a CEO, a Fearless Entrepreneur creating a global brand. You are creating an empire and nothing will stand in your way. You are outwardly successful and inspiring and your passion for your work is contagious. You tend to measure and receive your value from your success and accomplishments. Money measures your level of achievement and impact. You are never satisfied and believe that all of your sacrifices now will bring happiness in the future. You are an overthinker and that’s an understatement. You tend to perseverate and worry. You are not afraid of hard work, and you are taught that hard work is the secret to success.
The thing is… you’ve done everything you “ should ” do and you still feel unfulfilled and you don’t feel FREE. You feel you are bogged down by systems and structures that just don’t work for you anymore. You wonder, “Am I good enough?” When will I get there? You tend to have a moving money target and you find yourself working A LOT.
Whether you love your work or not you find that you are so focused on hinting that next goal you are missing out on Everyday moments. You overwork and you do so out of fear of losing your money, power, and identity – who are you if you aren’t working like a maniac? You may struggle with feeling confident deep down, but eradicate that feeling by overachieving. You do not know what it feels to be truly EMBODIED, and ultimate freedom would be doing your soul work as the source of your self-worth, which would create emotional freedom and fulfill your vision while embracing your unique significance, soul-enriching business and life of your dreams.
Pattern 3 The Empathic Lover
You think and feel deeply. You are a romantic and are highly empathic. You want to change the world and you just don’t get why everyone can’t get along. You believe that love makes the world go round and you are hypersensitive to people and their needs. You tend to abandon yourself to make others comfortable on a very subtle level. It may start as saying yes when you mean no. When it comes to money and wealth, you are the ultimate philanthropist. Sensitive, emotional, and wear your heart on your sleeve. You tend to rebel against goals, habits, and structures no matter how powerful because anything practical feels out of alignment. You can fall into victim consciousness, unknowingly feeling a lack of control, vulnerable and insecure. You find it much easier to empower others than yourself and find yourself in a high-low cycle of energy, emotions, and money. You love transformation and one of your gifts is seeing the possibilities in others and creating ideas that catapult others into superstardom – if only you could do more of that for yourself! Grounding your ideas and transforming them into powerful and practical action steps can elevate and liberate you in unimaginable ways. You have the ability, when you apply focus, to monetize, manifest, and magnetically attract while making an impact.
Pattern 4 The Director
Your environment is well maintained, and often, you are directing where everything goes. Actually, you are the director of most things and even when you are just lending a hand you find yourself taking over. While looking and feeling your best is a priority, you haven’t experienced EMBODIMENT and are uncomfortable looking at aspects of yourself that may not be shed in the best light. You are stubborn and some may even say difficult or controlling. You may over-give out of feeling insecure and your self-worth comes from being a nurturer and being there for others. You create emotional entanglements and can be codependent, which threatens your sense of identity and self.
The rigidity and contraction in your body are expressed in your lifestyle, and you find that the idea of lightening up feels unsafe and insecure. You find that asking for what you need requires every bit of courage you can muster and most times; it’s just easier to suck it up and take care of things yourself. You tend to abandon yourself and many times don’t even realize you’re doing it. You can become resentful and find your worth is tied to how much and what you can do for people. It would help you learn to receive on a deep level and allow more flow instead of fight and flight in your life, body, and business.
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